My last two weeks
I oftentimes am amazed , fascinated intrigued about all the happenings around me that I don’t get to see, taste, smell (well let me take that back. In New York City I experience too many fragrances…jeeshhhh.🤐
So I’ll post my images in no particular date order but these are all from the last two weeks or thereabout. Most are my original photos. If you use them, please give me credit. Thankies🤗
I’ll start with myself enroute to work this morning…Happy Friday and have s great weekend.🎉🎉🎉
Sorry…this is not my original photo, but it spoke volumes to me. I’d be interested in what it says to you?
I found this little sunflower gem on my way to work this week. Thought if my neighbor Jackie. She’s an avid gardener and she grows beautiful sunflowers.
Early morning commute and this little tike had to drink a soda. I felt for her.
Labor Day meal prep. Caribbean people love their foods. This is Accra, which can generally be eaten with anything and anytime of day but many prefer it at breakfast. Typically eaten with fry bake, or johnny bake, but rice and a choka is good as well.
Homelessness in New York is disparaging. I shot this chap at the Prospect stop in Brooklyn. MTA what’s happening here?
My mom being Vogue I just did her hair😘
Again not an original pic but Trinidad and Tobago, my home country celebrated our 56th Independence August 31, 2018.
Just a kids park in Sunset Park area Brooklyn
In one of my post earlier this week I posted about the heart. I featured this young man in the hat. Don’t know him but he was very kind. Got up and gave his seat to an elderly man. So sweet.
Night shot around The Barclays Center Brooklyn
Construction workers need a shout out too. This patient lady works by the bridge on 3rd Avenue
Stinky garbage day. This is what sanitation pick up day is like in NYC – blocked roadways, lots of delays and traffic due to sanitation, delayed MTA buses and school buses and many people running late for work due to Dept of Sanitation.
50 followers yeahhhhhhh🔥🔥🔥🔥
Found a shoe I really liked at Payless but opted not to buy it. I don’t need another shoe, but it was so cute and practical 😍
Picture of this whale I found which captures my spirit. I love whales.
Tinks turned 6❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Not sure what this was for or about but I loved it. Found it on a family members WhatsApp profile. Tee hee.
My Tinky before heading back to school
Well I think that wraps it up. I hope you enjoy. Have a restful and enjoyable weekend. Just a final word. More to myself….peace unto you.
Happy New Year/Rosh Hashanah to my Jewish friends
Social media fitness – The Rising
We get on maybe once or twice per day, check for likes, comments, browse news, videos, local events and sometimes just current events affecting the world.
It may be a few minutes for some but I know for me it’s an exercise in fitness. Why do I say that? I am always reading, thinking and trying to improve myself. Social Media allows me to control what I want and what I don’t want.
I can add friends, groups and businesses of my choosing. Select my pictures that are not so perfect but puts a smile on my face because of the memories. Share anecdotes with those in my circle and not be appalled by any of their content and vice versa. The filters are amazing.
I also have an agenda when it comes to social media. I’m not on to twerk, display nudity, be an embarrassment to myself or my community, and especially not to be cursing, swearing or being completely wayward for the sake of being wayward.
My community is Caribbean from Trinidad and Tobago and thus I embrace my African self wholeheartedly and everyone in the African diaspora.
It is my utmost endeavor daily to build an alliance of people and businesses to advance the existing state of Africans in the diaspora. The plan is wide but realistic.
The fitness aspect involves looking critically at myself and figuring out how to integrate my plans with those who have like endeavors. Networking is huge and thus the reason social media is so critical.
I cannot reinvent the wheel but I can certainly affect the way the wheel rotates, especially if spinning around in circles without creating positive change is all it’s doing.
I’m looking for real change across the diaspora, with real people who understand that we are significant regardless of the mantra of the past four hundred years. We had worth and value before, during and after our captured state.
Now is time for us to regain ourselves as a whole. We can’t leave anyone behind. When I say that I mean we have to create the organizations to relate to all the differences, dialects, languages, etc. in order for us to make it. We cannot be selfish but rather we must be our brothers keeper. I know there will be lost causes, but we still have to take the two steps forward approach, try and try different approaches, hand the mantle of this model to a new generation and watch it transform our reality into something amazing.
This is what scares people. Africans in the diaspora becoming socially, economically and financially conscious. This rising will be the downfall of too many economies to be comfortable but it will build the African consciousness, respect and finances. So, what do we do? We rise like our great Mother Maya Angelo would say.
Never witnessed anyone maneuver the MTA like this brother on a Sunday morning.
My son and I were both Brooklyn bound towards Sunset Park area. Between stations we must have seen at least 3 different passengers exchange seats across from us when we noticed a bag under the seat. This is the actual photo I took while on the train Sunday. If you zoom in under the empty seat. You’ll see it.
Our plan was to call the conductor on it but before we had a chance, one of the previous passengers zoomed in when the door opened at Dekalb, grabbed the bag and announced, “I’m a real New Yorker, the original Batman of Gotham, think I don’t know how to retrieve my s$&@?” Struck a pose and walked out the cab.
An actual shot of the cab we were in before he came back.
All in a matter of seconds. My son and I were in awe. How did he do it?? We were speculating maybe he jumped in an Uber? My son says it’s most likely he grabbed a J line and hopped on over. I don’t know. Not all that familiar with the NYC Subways.
Whatever he do, he did it super fast to beat the train he was originally on, and transferred elsewhere. Major feat in this city, plus thankfully arrive at the exact car and retrieve his bag.
That is definitely some Batman stunts right there indeed.
The sheer ability to reach out to family, friends, long lost classmates, and even complete strangers who happen to share similar interests, over great distances, oceans, and even continents. I don’t know what advances have been made in space because I haven’t reviewed any NASA information. But, I will be soon since the very idea of being able to send instant message to space is revolutionary.
While I know there are negatives- it can be time consuming, even disrupt interaction With real relationships in our lives. Some even spend so much time on social media, they have no real relationship. Others spend time filtering themselves so you really have no idea what’s real and what’s not.
But, it is important for me to highlight the positives and emphasize a balance can be met. Definitely!
I do not start my day with Social Media. That’s my biggest positive. When I open my eyes each day my praise and attention goes to my Higher Power…acknowledging and thanking God for my life, my love ones and all my blessings.
Secondly, I take care of myself, preparing myself for my day, getting chores done etc. if my chores aren’t done, I don’t reward myself with social media.
Thirdly, I take breaks from social media just to reboot, get perspective and just have me time. It may be a week or a few months. Depends how I feel. From time to time I may skip a couple days.
Lastly, social media isn’t all that important for me to disconnect from real people, real conversations and connections. I make a point to enjoy real life daily and not to have technology be all consuming . As Marshall McLuhan author of “Understanding Media” points out in the first chapter of his book :
Beyond what we think we are doing with technologies like smartphones, there is also the reality of what is happening to us when we use them. In short, what happens to us is the social message. This social “message” is also being sent to us at the same time as we use our devices for other purposes. We may not be initially aware of what is happening and how society is changing. But, over time, the social effects of the new technology seep, at least partially, into social awareness. Usually, this happens as older people point out to the younger ones how social habits have changed in their lifetime.
I’m a loner by nature who loves people. Abit of an oxymoron. But that’s my reality. I’m not a social person but I can be when called to be.
Social media Image taken from the imaginative conservative
McLuhan, Marshall. “Understanding Media”
After that one, genuine, authentic you…there won’t be another. The mold can only be cut once so enjoy every moment you can so you can laugh and smile at yourself with others and at the memories each day. Not the end of your days.
Just imagine my dissatisfaction at the fact that “almost” an entire industry is geared towards making money by sacrificing our nails and hair.
I started braiding my own hair maybe fifteen years ago, prior to that I would go to personal stylists who were exceptional but costly. I started learning how to do my own braided extensions and crochet braids. It was a journey because along the way I observed so much and was so dismayed about the industry trends concerning natural hair.
Many black women own salons but many are refusing to bring their salon up to standard and keep the quality on par with competitors in other communities. Plus everyone else who own services for the black woman, wants our money, exploits the community and do not provide any services to rival the money we spend.
Asian businesses only resell hair and products, and they sell you anything. The don’t care if it is good for our hair or not. There is no education, just stock. Another prevelant and disturbing issue is blatant disrespect for women of color by the asian business owners, and refusal to empower the community they service with employment. More recently I’ve seen these businesses are in fact hiring women of color into their businesses. Kudos to them but it seems the employment is usually as a store clerk, very rarely positions in management, financials, etc. but it’s a start. Let’s see some improvement please.
I would like to see a vast improvement of this is the Asian beauty salons. 100% of their staff are generally Asians and most are freshly immigrated, barely any English and loads of back talking to customers in another language. As significant as we are to business owners financially, then customer service should be radically improved as well as employment to re-circulate in our own communities.
I’ve had to cease going to one salon in Brooklyn and more recently another here in Queens, NY due to substandard conditions, poor communication, hygiene and here’s the kicker, the stylist refusal to stop drilling my nails. I saw a marked weakening of my nails and inquired, but was told it had something to do with my nails. So I decided to do a little experiment, as I’m primed to doing whenever hogwash is thrown my way, you see? So I went maybe six months or nine without salons. I removed all nail polish, filed my own nails and did clear only. Of course my nails restored to their original strength and beauty. Foolish me, wanting to have the glitz and fancy, went back again and behold my nails started weakening again. I brought it to the owner’s attention and again they refused to stop using drills.
Drills increase productivity and profit. They can work faster and therefore turn over more customers and ultimately make more money bottom line. No one but the health department can enforce this madness. I won’t get into the negative effects of the nail drying techniques using the acrylics and gel. Consistent and long-term use of these ultraviolet light may not contradict our original intent, which is to take care of ourselves, look our best but these methods of application and drying may not be the most holistic. I’ve attached a link to research and educate on the dangers of the gel method and perhaps other alternatives to get beautiful nails Potential dangers to Gel polish
But ladies just think about your nails and how much money you are pouring into having acrylics, gels and tips. Is it worth it? Try it for 30 60 days and free yourself of the financial burden of keeping your own nails beautiful – except under the surface your nails are a hot mess.
Our hair is an entirely different story. The industry has to improve overall. These businesses if they are going to operate in our community have to be vested there as well. Only you can impact on this issue ladies. Want change and better yet empower your community more. Start by ensuring your local businesses are hiring local girls, banking in your community and supporting community endeavors. You will see their true colors soon enough. We can be beautiful without compromising our natural selves, while empowering our communities, by ensuring some basic rules are established and followed.
It’s been 8 months since I posted to my blog. Life has had many ups and downs, and I’ve had to choose my activities carefully. I’ve been trying to take things and life easy. I work very hard, and things haven’t been the way I would normally like them to be, but thus is life. School has been stressful, especially with financial, and health issues always looming. But, I am so overcoming, and I’m back!!!
My oldest son Augustus is still in a place of bondage literally, and fighting for his life. My prayers for him are for guidance and ordering of his steps for improved decision making and quality of life.
I became a new grandmom back in August of 2012, so now it’s official my grand daughter is now 1 year. I just love her.
My daughter is growing and I’m praying to God for direction in her life. She’s such an amazing young woman, so much strength, character and an amazing gift of artistry. Let’s see how she figures it out.
My youngest son has had a few challenges but he seems to be hanging on strong. I can’t wait to see where his mind leads him.
I moved to a temporary residence in June 2013 until I can find permanent housing, but I have a great job and I love my employer and the people with whom I work.
Joel Osteen posted the following to Facebook this morning, and I believe it:
Sometimes heaven can be silent. But in those silent times something powerful is happening deep inside. God is stretching you. You’re developing a greater confidence in Him.
This was Joel Osteen yesterday:
In spite of how you feel, in spite of what’s been passed down in your family line, every day you need to declare, “Everything about me is getting better and better.”
Having had two days off from work (Thursday & Friday) for the Jewish New Year -Rosh Hashanah, I commented on Facebook as follows:
I have two days off from work so I’m using it to take care of some necessary chores, also to get some much needed rest. I need prayer, for those prayer warriors out there (you know who you are). God knows my needs, so just pray and ask God for direction and He will let you pray appropriately for my needs.
Please enjoy your day and love the ones you are with. They may not be here tomorrow. Each day is so precious, so enjoy your life and enjoy the people in your life.
Remember words are POWERFUL!!! So, be careful of the words you allow to come out of your mouths. They can transform your life or break your life.
Don’t allow others to have power over you. Remember, you are a child of God and only you can be King or Queen of your destiny. I’m preaching to the choir now!!!! Good gracious me!!!!
Have a great day Y’all!!! Luv and kisses!!
Yesterday I had an opportunity to speak with my dear friend Keira. Keira is the type of person you can call, and she listens and prays. She has an interesting Non-Profit called C.O.N.N.E.C.T. Ministry in Knoxville, Tennessee. I would love to be able to help because it involves helping people in the community connect to resources they may not necessarily find other places. People with financial difficulty, homelessness, addictions, and sometimes despair arrive at her door, and her first approach is always prayer. After that she tries to deal with the physical and emotional needs of the individual and their families. Keira has other external resources she can approach to make the services she provide all encompassing, to include transportation assistance, rent, joblessness, etc. I had the good fortune to work with her and enjoyed the experience tremendously. In fact, the experience was life changing for me.
Keira Wyatt, Director C.O.N.N.E.C.T Ministries. Knoxville, TN
I cannot forget my friend Caroline who has had a tremendous impact on my life as well. She has been realizing her lifelong dream of establishing an orphanage in Ghana for orphans and widows. She recently took a trip to Ghana and did just that. I think she is truly awesome and I pray for her success.
Caroline Quist, Director of Village of God’s Children