Living Color

My last two weeks

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I oftentimes am amazed , fascinated intrigued about all the happenings around me that I don’t get to see, taste, smell (well let me take that back. In New York City I experience too many fragrances…jeeshhhh.🤐

So I’ll post my images in no particular date order but these are all from the last two weeks or thereabout. Most are my original photos. If you use them, please give me credit. Thankies🤗

I’ll start with myself enroute to work this morning…Happy Friday and have s great weekend.🎉🎉🎉

Sorry…this is not my original photo, but it spoke volumes to me. I’d be interested in what it says to you?

I found this little sunflower gem on my way to work this week. Thought if my neighbor Jackie. She’s an avid gardener and she grows beautiful sunflowers.

Early morning commute and this little tike had to drink a soda. I felt for her.

Labor Day meal prep. Caribbean people love their foods. This is Accra, which can generally be eaten with anything and anytime of day but many prefer it at breakfast. Typically eaten with fry bake, or johnny bake, but rice and a choka is good as well.

Homelessness in New York is disparaging. I shot this chap at the Prospect stop in Brooklyn. MTA what’s happening here?

My mom being Vogue I just did her hair😘

Again not an original pic but Trinidad and Tobago, my home country celebrated our 56th Independence August 31, 2018.

Just a kids park in Sunset Park area Brooklyn

In one of my post earlier this week I posted about the heart. I featured this young man in the hat. Don’t know him but he was very kind. Got up and gave his seat to an elderly man. So sweet.

Night shot around The Barclays Center Brooklyn

Construction workers need a shout out too. This patient lady works by the bridge on 3rd Avenue

Stinky garbage day. This is what sanitation pick up day is like in NYC – blocked roadways, lots of delays and traffic due to sanitation, delayed MTA buses and school buses and many people running late for work due to Dept of Sanitation.

Cuteness not🤕

50 followers yeahhhhhhh🔥🔥🔥🔥

Found a shoe I really liked at Payless but opted not to buy it. I don’t need another shoe, but it was so cute and practical 😍

Picture of this whale I found which captures my spirit. I love whales.

Tinks turned 6❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Not sure what this was for or about but I loved it. Found it on a family members WhatsApp profile. Tee hee.

My Tinky before heading back to school

Well I think that wraps it up. I hope you enjoy. Have a restful and enjoyable weekend. Just a final word. More to myself….peace unto you.

Happy New Year/Rosh Hashanah to my Jewish friends

Real life Batman 34th Street to Dekalb Ave NYC Gotham

Real life Batman

34th Street to Dekalb Ave

Never witnessed anyone maneuver the MTA like this brother on a Sunday morning.

See Something Say Something

My son and I were both Brooklyn bound towards Sunset Park area. Between stations we must have seen at least 3 different passengers exchange seats across from us when we noticed a bag under the seat. This is the actual photo I took while on the train Sunday. If you zoom in under the empty seat. You’ll see it.

Our plan was to call the conductor on it but before we had a chance, one of the previous passengers zoomed in when the door opened at Dekalb, grabbed the bag and announced, “I’m a real New Yorker, the original Batman of Gotham, think I don’t know how to retrieve my s$&@?” Struck a pose and walked out the cab.

An actual shot of the cab we were in before he came back.

All in a matter of seconds. My son and I were in awe. How did he do it?? We were speculating maybe he jumped in an Uber? My son says it’s most likely he grabbed a J line and hopped on over. I don’t know. Not all that familiar with the NYC Subways.

Whatever he do, he did it super fast to beat the train he was originally on, and transferred elsewhere. Major feat in this city, plus thankfully arrive at the exact car and retrieve his bag.

That is definitely some Batman stunts right there indeed.

#Sunday

#Subway

#NYC

#Batmananimated

#34thStreet

#DekalbAvenue

#Brooklyn

#MTA

#Gotham

#Uber

How Does Social Media fit into your world?

Social Media

I love social media!! Period!

The sheer ability to reach out to family, friends, long lost classmates, and even complete strangers who happen to share similar interests, over great distances, oceans, and even continents. I don’t know what advances have been made in space because I haven’t reviewed any NASA information. But, I will be soon since the very idea of being able to send instant message to space is revolutionary.

Negatives

While I know there are negatives- it can be time consuming, even disrupt interaction With real relationships in our lives. Some even spend so much time on social media, they have no real relationship. Others spend time filtering themselves so you really have no idea what’s real and what’s not.

Positives and Balance

But, it is important for me to highlight the positives and emphasize a balance can be met. Definitely!

Really? Yes, Really!!

I do not start my day with Social Media. That’s my biggest positive. When I open my eyes each day my praise and attention goes to my Higher Power…acknowledging and thanking God for my life, my love ones and all my blessings.

Secondly, I take care of myself, preparing myself for my day, getting chores done etc. if my chores aren’t done, I don’t reward myself with social media.

Thirdly, I take breaks from social media just to reboot, get perspective and just have me time. It may be a week or a few months. Depends how I feel. From time to time I may skip a couple days.

Lastly, social media isn’t all that important for me to disconnect from real people, real conversations and connections. I make a point to enjoy real life daily and not to have technology be all consuming . As Marshall McLuhan author of “Understanding Media” points out in the first chapter of his book :

Beyond what we think we are doing with technologies like smartphones, there is also the reality of what is happening to us when we use them. In short, what happens to us is the social message. This social “message” is also being sent to us at the same time as we use our devices for other purposes. We may not be initially aware of what is happening and how society is changing. But, over time, the social effects of the new technology seep, at least partially, into social awareness. Usually, this happens as older people point out to the younger ones how social habits have changed in their lifetime.

I’m a loner by nature who loves people. Abit of an oxymoron. But that’s my reality. I’m not a social person but I can be when called to be.

Caribguhl-VillageTalk

reference:

The Social Message of Social Media

Social media Image taken from the imaginative conservative

McLuhan, Marshall. “Understanding Media”

No Social Media – #unplug

Sometimes that little voice in my head gives me insight.

Only God

Call it intuition, instincts, I say it’s God. Whatever your words are for it.

But sometimes you need to clear all the junk and free your mind, your thoughts and ground zero yourself do what you can to jump start or elevate your thinking.

One week social media free

A good start is social media. Try it for one week. Do something else for one week and come back and tell me how you’ve evolved. How have the actual people in your life benefitted.

#howdoyoufeel

#oneweekfreesocialmediamovement

#wisdomatwork

#nosocialmedia

#nofacebook

#notwitter

#noinstagram

#Notimelines

#nofeeds

#nolikes

#unplug

#caribguhl

#villagetalk

There is only one me

There’s only one me

I seem to reflect on this one thought ever so often.

The first reason being, it is a fact.

There’s only one me.

Secondly, the earlier in life we begin to understand, internalize and more importantly accept this fact, so much more fall into place for us and our authenticity allows us to have peace and many things suddenly make more sense. For one, you accept all of your imperfections and you relate and communicate as you view you view yourself, as a diamond, genuine and priceless. Secondly, how others view you does not fluster you because you are you to yourself and that’s uncompromising and refreshing.

Thirdly, there is a tremendous amount of power and freedom harnessed in acceptance of oneself as you are.

Fourthly, but not the last, those around you appreciate you more because you’ve accepted yourself, are comfortable within that framework of who you are and that makes you a more enjoyable and loveable person.

After that one, genuine, authentic you…there won’t be another. The mold can only be cut once so enjoy every moment you can so you can laugh and smile at yourself with others and at the memories each day. Not the end of your days.